Buildings and Grounds

It has now been just over six months that I have served on the Vestry here at Advent, and I have been kept busy with the role of Chair of Buildings and Grounds. Any way you look at it the Advent Campus is the core to our church family, providing space for us to worship, study, teach, provide entertainment together and outreach to the community at large. We are blest to have such an impressive set of buildings in an attractive lot at the gateway to Kennett Square.

The Advent Campus is a fairly big one and to provide a little history the main Sanctuary building was built in 1956, so is 62 years old. I am very sympathetic with this as at 65 years old I am now beginning to yet the aches and pains that accompany aging, so I know what to expect with the Sanctuary building as it develops its own system of aches and pains. The North Wing was built in 1990 as was the Chapel extension to the West side of the Sanctuary, so these wings are now 28 years old, and will be experiencing its own form of growing pains. Finally the South Wing was added in 2004 and is a relatively young 14 years old, but as many youngsters experience subject to accidents that can cause pain and suffering.

Some of you may have noticed that there are several problems developing that will need to be rectified in due course. Some, such as the car park are very noticeable with cracking and alligatoring occurring in the lower car park adjacent to the North and South Wings. Other issues such as cracking and possible water inclusion are found at the back wall of the Church facing the Union Cemetery and therefore mainly un-noticed. The Sanctuary roof is a very stunning slate roof, but if you take a close look you will see that the slates are beginning to delaminate and some have been replaced. As we move forward these and several other components of the Advent Campus will require more and more attention and almost certainly a total replacement at some point.

Typically building owners develop a Capital Reserve program over time to allow for these sort of events to be funded and repaired/replaced as the building and plant age. Unfortunately, the capital reserve fund at Advent has for several reasons fallen behind the expected cost for such repairs and replacements. As prudent managers of the Advent Campus the Vestry now needs to determine what the appropriate Capital Reserve fund should be, and find ways to build it up as quickly as possible.

Clearly we need to ensure that the Advent Campus remains in good order and will be there in good working order for the next several generations of the congregation. Therefore, we recently hired Bustamante Engineers, Inc. to undertake a Property Condition Assessment and determine the expected cost of maintaining the Advent Campus in a good state of repair over the next 15 year period. This work is currently underway and the results will be presented to the congregation at completion of the process.

Other items that are included in the study are what needs to be done to upgrade the efficiency of the Advent Campus. For instance the windows in the Sanctuary were the best design available 62 years ago, but are now not as energy efficient as new designs and cost the operational budget in increased electric and fuel oil charges. New windows over time would pay for themselves with improved energy efficiencies. The heating is currently provided by heat pumps using electric power, and on colder days is supplemented by oil fired boilers in the Sanctuary, and daily during the winter in the pre-school area of

the North Wing. Installing a pipeline access to the natural gas supply and converting from electric and oil heating would save significant operational costs over time. Additionally, changing the kitchen from propane to natural gas would also lead to operational savings over time.

As I said at the opening, the Advent Campus is the core to our church family. We have a responsibility to ensure it is kept in good condition to provide shelter to our church community to worship together for generations to come.

Special Events

Gone are the leisurely days of summer, fall is upon us bringing schedules and activities.

January is typically the beginning of the new year, however, Fall seems to feel like a fresh start. Maybe it’s the beginning of a new school year. The NFL begins its new season and the new Fall television lineup kicks off.

The new season of special events has also kicked off at Advent. I have had the privilege of working on new events and bringing back past events to Advent.

Special events serve many purposes -- some as fundraisers and others as fellowship opportunities. All of our events are open to the community, family and friends. Special events help raise awareness of what the Church of Advent has to offer. This is important as we continue to grow the Advent congregation.

These are some of the events that have happened and those events that are upcoming. This past week we held our Town Hall meeting bringing important topics to the congregation followed by our welcome back picnic. This is always a great time to catch up with friends and welcome new ones. Salt Shaker Dinners were held and were great evenings of food and fellowship. There will be another Salt Shaker Dinner on October 20. Won’t you consider attending one or hosting. We will have two or three more in 2019. The Rummage Sale is October 27; we are always in need of help and donations. We will have a Baptismal Reception on Sunday, November 4. The Artisan Fair is November 9; this is a great time to bring friends and family. The Veterans’ Reception is Sunday, November 11. Wisdom Keepers will be having lunch on Sunday, November 18. This is a great time for the generations to come together. We are the in early stages of organizing a lady’s night out with vendors that cater to women. This brings us to Advent where there will be lots of gatherings to prepare for Christmas.

If anyone has any ideas or suggestions for activities, please feel free to contact me.

Yours In Christ

Mary Nichols

Coming together is a beginning.

Keeping together is progress.

Working together is success.

- Henry Ford

Why I Come To Church

In today’s society, going to church every Sunday is more the exception than the rule it once was. So it seems appropriate to think about why this is a good “habit” to have. So here are some thoughts on why I come to church:

* I come to church when all is right in my world. This is the time to remember that I haven’t achieved this by myself but with the help of friends and family and by the grace of God. This is a time to share my joy with others and to give thanks to God for all his blessings.

* I come to church when my life seems to be falling apart. I found support when my career was in shambles. I find comfort when people I love are ill or have died. I find help when I am ill myself. I come to church to share my sorrows and ask for help from God and my church family. I come to open my life to God’s healing power.

* I come to church when all I want to do is sit at home and read the paper with my coffee. I come to church when it is not convenient and I dragged my kids along when they were young and fractious. I come to church when I am out of charity with everyone, and I find peace in the silence and the music, and the “beauty of holiness.” I come to church for the love.

* I go to church when I am on vacation (ok, not always). This lets me experience how other congregations and denominations worship and relate to God. I give thanks that I can be on vacation and have time to rest. I go to church to refresh my soul.

* I come to church even when church is annoying me. I come when I disagree with the sermon or other members, or when it seems that the congregation is falling apart. I come to church trying always to bring an open mind and an open heart. I come to church to support the community of faith that has supported me.

Why do you come to church? It should be more than a habit. It should be a deliberate choice. Worship to uplift your soul. Study to learn about God and how to be in relationship with him. Be in mutual support with members of our church community. Witness to your beliefs by reaching out to others. Come to church and say with your lips, believe in your heart and show forth in your life so that you can make Christ visible in the world

On Being a Neighbor

Last week, I went on vacation to see my husband’s family in Pittsburg, PA. It turns out, our visit coincided with the 50th anniversary celebration of when Mr. Rogers’ Neighborhood first aired. Signs, quotes, and all kinds of displays were all over the city to pay tribute to the man who not only gave joy to millions of children over 3 generations, but singlehandedly saved public television in the ‘70s.

I used to love watching Mr. Rogers’ Neighborhood when I was a child. His show was fun to watch and very easy to understand.

So, in honor of a special man who brought a profound message to all of us who watched him, I took some of the quotes I saw around the Pittsburg area and applied some of my own thoughts to them. When I first read them, I reflected on how easy it is to be down on ourselves for our limitations. It is so much better for all of us if we think in terms of the positive we all bring to each other.

Mutual caring relationships require kindness and patience, tolerance, optimism, joy in the other’s achievements, confidence in oneself, and the ability to give without undue thought of gain.” 
— ― Fred Rogers, The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember

I never knew that Fred Rogers grew up sick with asthma and overweight for most of his childhood. He felt isolated and downtrodden. He had a very low self esteem, because he could not socialize very much. His maternal grandfather, Mr. McFeely began to work with Fred through simple interactions and very positive statements to help him develop more self esteem and confidence. Fred’s  feelings about himself changed slowly over time as a result. So profound was this change for Fred that he named a character on Mr. Rogers’ Neighborhood Mr. McFeely.  His grandfather’s influence is also what drove him to help children. Television was the medium he realized would reach the largest number of children to get his message about their value and place in the world.

“The thing I remember best about successful people I’ve met all through the years is their obvious delight in what they’re doing and it seems to have very little to do with worldly success. They just love what they’re doing, and they love it in front of others.” 
— Fred Rogers, The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember

 

When I come to church, I feel what Mr. Rogers is saying above. Our clergy are happy to be here. Parishioners are happy to be here. We are a community, and despite our relatively small size, we are successful by being together. Being happy doing something and calling that a success is something I’ve found very hard to do. Other measures of success in society may be important at some point or another, but it is not the only measure. That feeling of happiness being somewhere is what makes me want to come back to doing the work of relationship. That is the feeling Fred Rogers discovered when his grandfather told him his presence made him happy.

 “There’s a world of difference between insisting on someone’s doing something and establishing an atmosphere in which that person can grow into wanting to do it.” 
— Fred Rogers, You Are Special: Neighborly Wit And Wisdom From Mister Rogers

 My son worked on Good Neighbors this summer. He was very unsure if he would like ‘physical labor’ on a stranger’s house. He got such a positive response from his work that he told me less than a day after it ended that he could not wait to do it next year. He generally enjoys going to Church as well. He’s motivated mostly by the youth group, but also to  hear what our Clergy is going to say in their Homily.

It was not always this easy to get him to want to participate.

There were plenty of Sundays where I had to bribe him with treats from Starbucks to get him into the car for Church without a fight. It was hard work for me (and expensive!), but I wanted him to understand the importance of a Church community and prayed I was doing this ‘right’. Well, I know now there is no real ‘right’ way- except to make sure those around us feel loved and respected. Let’s face it, all of us have trouble doing things we don’t like. It is so easy to berate ourselves when we don’t want to do something. It’s hard to remember that we are doing  the best we can and that this is OK.  We are here and that is enough.

“When I was a boy and I would see scary things in the news, my mother would say to me, “Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping.” 
— Fred Rogers

I believe this statement to be true. So often, our news reports talk about the people who have done wrong, it is easy to forget that there were scores of other people who helped with the situation. For every car accident, there are teams of people both on the scene and later on who are there to help. The help does not always come from those who are assigned a ‘job’ to help. Often, help comes in the form of a person doing something profoundly simple- like giving a hug or holding a hand.

 

“There was a story going around about the Special Olympics. For the hundred-yard dash, there were nine contestants, all of them so-called physically or mentally disabled. All nine of them assembled at the starting line and, at the sound of the gun, they took off. But one little boy didn’t get very far. He stumbled and fell and hurt his knee and began to cry. The other eight children heard the boy crying. They slowed down, turned around, and ran back to him—every one of them ran back to him. The little boy got up, and he and the rest of the runners linked their arms together and joyfully walked to the finish line.
They all finished the race at the same time. And when they did, everyone in the stadium stood up and clapped and whistled and cheered for a long, long time. And you know why? Because deep down we know that what matters in this life is more than winning for ourselves. What really matters is helping others win, too, even if it means slowing down and changing our course now and then.” 
—  Fred Rogers

My son was the youth who fell off a ladder at Good Neighbors. Although not all the other kids could go up and comfort him while they waited for the ambulance to come (he only needed stitches – and has made a full recovery!)- one young man did walk right up and hold his hand while Pastor Adriane (from St. Michael’s) applied first aid. My son was truly touched by the simple, but brave act, of someone holding his hand and telling him he was going to be ok.  Since his injury, every single youth in our Parish and most of their parents, and many additional parishioners have come up to me and asked after my son’s health. I cannot ask for a more kind and sincere group of concerned people in a community.

That is ‘crossing the finish line’ together. Our children are learning it and they are living it- and we are all- as a Parish family-  successful, because of it.

So, the next time you’re thinking you may not be ‘good enough’ or ‘enthusiastic enough’ or have  ‘enough’ time to do something- remember you are here in this world and that alone makes me proud to be your neighbor!

Yours in Christ,

Karen Rodgers

Partnerships In Mission

 

So, it’s the end of July and beginning of August and time for a progress update and invitation to you.   

Back in February, the changing approach for Partnerships In Mission was described. It is to be a part of the voice of mission and service at Advent.  Our goal is to transform and grow from simply writing checks to more participation and celebration of missional ministries and having a way to thoughtfully select how to use the funds graciously given to Advent.  Then in April, we announced our Mission Project Application to get ideas from within our congregation to achieve our mission and a Bulletin Board describing ministry projects at Advent.  

To date, Partnerships in Mission Ministry has used our Ministry Project Application to support new and existing ministries at Advent.   Look at the Bulletin Board for some of our efforts.  More is in the works.  Like more projects to collect items that people need – locally, nationally, internationally. Like a reusable bag to both make Advent visible in the community and to be environmentally sensitive.  Like supporting a local agency to aid in their efforts to educate students.  Like helping Operation Grain Train.  

Generally, PIM meets the first Monday of each month and our next meeting is August 6 at 6pm.  We’re looking for you to join us as we act as a coordinating ministry to help existing programs and start new ones within Advent.  We are also looking to bring the external community to Advent both to raise awareness of Advent in the community and to raise the awareness of programs that we at Advent can become involved with – locally, nationally and globally.  At our August meeting, we will cover a possible participation in the Southern Chester County Opportunity Network, a local collaborative initiative to the address and reduce poverty and improve the quality of life for all in Southern Chester County. I’ve participated in a number of what they term Discovery Groups and I’ll describe these Discovery Groups that we could explore.  We’ll also cover the potential for collaborative with the Diocese of Pennsylvania in their mission initiatives.  There is a fair amount going on and we as Advent can see how to participate and share.   

This leads to another initiative, Communication.  Communication means both communication what is going on at Advent and communication to make us visible in our communities.  Think about it, Communication and Mission go together.  How about being visible at the Mushroom Festival? Can we be visible during the Festival?  Offering parking for those attending?  Offering water bottles for those attending? Let PIM know, better yet attend the August meeting.   

Achieving our mission – Making Christ Visible; Changing Lives; Making a Difference – Together